i don't know lately after the update , i cannot join most game unless i am the host else the loading page just crash and i gb to the room ..idk y ... i didn't have that problem before ... i uninstalled voobly twice but i still have the problem .... please help

Which patch? Any game mods involved? Any visual datamods installed? And please paste us the results of the game diagnostiscs. Thank you.

patch 1.6 ... i have no problem in WK
my diagnostices

Non-DirectPlay game path is 'd:\age of empires 2 & the conquerors expansion - full game'
Verifying 'd:\age of empires 2 & the conquerors expansion - full game\language_x1.dll' exists...
Success!
Verifying 'd:\age of empires 2 & the conquerors expansion - full game\age2_x1\age2_x1.exe' exists...
Success!
Voobly path is 'c:\program files (x86)\voobly'
Game version is '1.0C-VLY'
Verifying 'd:\age of empires 2 & the conquerors expansion - full game\language_x1_p1.dll' exists...
Success!
Checking DirectPlay libraries...
Looking for dpwsockx.dll...
Looking for dplayx.dll...
'c:\windows\system32\dplayx.dll' size: 215552 bytes
DirectPlay Init Success!
Scanning installed DirectPlay games...
Age of Empires II - The Conquerors Expansion [found]
Game was found in DirectPlay registry!
DirectPlay play thinks the game is installed at 'd:\age of empires 2 & the conquerors expansion - full game'
DirectPlay command line is 'Lobby'
DirectPlay play thinks the game exe is at 'd:\age of empires 2 & the conquerors expansion - full game\AGE2_X1\age2_x1.exe'
Verifying file exists... Success!
DirectPlay play thinks the language dll is at 'd:\age of empires 2 & the conquerors expansion - full game\language_x1.dll'
Verifying file exists... Success!
Scanning 'c:\program files (x86)\voobly\gamedata\AOC\age2_x1.exe'
Success!

Everything looks fine. DirectPlay is configured and the game was found on your harddrive. If you still have problems try rejoining the lobby or restarting your computer.

i got some visual mod but the regular ones ...any specific one i should uninstall ?

more than grid terrian installed ??could that crash the game while joining ?

i uninstall the bugged grid terrian and it is fixed now ...thanx for ur concern
all fine now

Do you remember the exact name of the bugged grid terrain?

i got like 3 grid terrian installed and they bug each other ..got Adavnced Grid NoSnow,and Nirvana terrian and Grid Master Terrian .... only Grid master terrian works now ..and it is fixed
probably all 2gthr crash the log in ..must be only one terrian active

Noted, two or more conflicting data mods. Thanks.

problem is back again in 1.6 mod. . i don't have problem in WK though
idk what's wrong ..help plz

Try disabling ALL visual data mods and see, whether you are still having the issue. One or more data mods are either in conflict, or one visual data mod is incompatible.